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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Wed Dec 05, 2012 9:36 pm


I wish she had of too. Understand social workers are not trained mental health workers. They
don't have degrees in pyscology or pyscarity. I think they are trained in reccoginizing the sypmtoms
of despression but again I don't know. (ESH, tell I'm upset spelling all over the countryside.)
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Post by Suzzzz on Wed Dec 05, 2012 9:47 pm

No, I get it, and hospital staff are all overworked. I'm not saying she didn't do her job. I just think Jeane needs someone to talk to. Do you suppose that hospital has a priest?
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Wed Dec 05, 2012 10:02 pm



Suzzz, I don't think Jeane will talk to anyone. After talking to Andrea and Lorel, there is a lot
more going on here than Jeane is telling us nor Andrea for that matter. I've spoken at length to
Lorel who seems to know Jeane fairly well and there is so much that even she doesn't know.

I know we all want to roll up our sleeves and get in there and fix it but we can't. The reality of it
is we can't.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by fiffur on Thu Dec 06, 2012 1:36 pm

I just have this sinking feeling that if Jeane doesn't ask for some help with all this on her plate she won't be here to see her next birthday.............. Sad
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Post by lovekitties on Thu Dec 06, 2012 4:05 pm

Do you know if jeane is still in the hospital. I just saw in my emails that she has changed the picture on her facebook page.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Thu Dec 06, 2012 5:46 pm



As I understand it she is out. When I see her on line I while PM her.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Suzzzz on Thu Dec 06, 2012 9:34 pm

Well, Sue, all I can say for now is send her our love. It's very good of you to try to help her as much as you have.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Thu Dec 06, 2012 9:39 pm



I used FB's chat feature. She didn't supply a lot of detail and I didn't ask
a lot questions. She sounds about the same.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by BobCat on Thu Dec 06, 2012 10:07 pm

Actually, on FB you would think nothing had happened at all. She's back to regular posting.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Thu Dec 06, 2012 10:24 pm



I know.
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Post by lovekitties on Sat Dec 08, 2012 3:57 pm

posting up a storm on FB. I wish shw would remember that there are lots of friends here who are concerned for her.
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Post by BobCat on Sat Dec 08, 2012 4:41 pm

I'm hip, LK. She's way far into her Monkees and pseudo-Monkees group fan stuff. I guess that stuff makes her happy, but people here have been very kind to her and I feel bad for them that she has kind of left them hanging.
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Post by Sue Short on Sat Dec 08, 2012 4:45 pm



Very astute, BC, in fact some of the people have noted that on FB.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Suzzzz on Sat Dec 08, 2012 9:13 pm

Denial is a complicated thing. Perhaps JB knows that if she comes here she will have to tell us the truth about everything. If she stays on Facebook she can Monkee to her heart's content and stay comfortably on the surface. We can't MAKE her accept our concern.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Sat Dec 08, 2012 9:15 pm



I agree Suzzz, I've been chatting with her every night but won't bring the subject up
What a coward I am, then again if I piss her off I won't be able to learn anything. What a
:soapbos: mess.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by fiffur on Mon Dec 10, 2012 2:16 pm

Guess we'll find out she's gone for good when she stops posting on FB. I was wondering out loud with my mom on how we'd know......since I doubt her landlord would email any of us to let us know she'd crossed the bridge.

I hate denial.....better to face stuff head-on and deal with it. Better off that way in the long run. Sue, has she said anything about the rescue kitties? I worry about who will take care of them if she lands in the hospital again, or worse.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by fluffnstuff on Mon Dec 10, 2012 3:20 pm

In lots of ways, I'm glad that I can access her timeline of Facebook. It's the only way I can find out anything about her health without flat out asking. I feel like I'm being nosey, but at least it the lesser evil of all the actions I could take to get small amount of info from Jeane.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by ARNIgal on Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:21 pm

This discussion we are all having about how Jeane is doing is taking a turn that is disturbing to me...it seems that on this blog we are starting to become angry a little with her because she is not just freely giving information to us, and that is just plaing wrong! Also, we are "talking" amongst ourselves as if Jeane is not looking at this blog! affraid We all should take a breather and remember she is the one that SHE is the one that has cancer and will give up that info when she sees fit! Despite the fact that the social worker has spoken to one of us, there is also information given to that social worker that has to be kept in confidence. Perhaps Jeane's friend is holding back as well...! Jeane, if you are reading this on the sly, thanks for being so forthcoming when starting this topic Smile I hope that you're finding some peace of mind out there!
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Mon Dec 10, 2012 5:59 pm



I took a quick glance back and Arni's right y'all. We have and have started to cross
the line. Embarassed
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Post by ARNIgal on Mon Dec 10, 2012 6:16 pm

Also, on occasion when I was unemployed, I've done quick searches on the web to see what kind of monetary help is out there for treatment of cancer and other major illnesses. Don't worry 'bout me...seems to be needless worry at this juncture! No help seemed to be spelled out in a really obvious way and Jeane, I hope you are not running into this conundrum! confused Her ability just "get help" might not be so easy as we all seem to think it is...and it may have nothing at all to do with "pride"! confused
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by lovekitties on Mon Dec 10, 2012 6:45 pm

I hope that I don't come off here as seeming negative of jeane, or angry., just missing her comments here and wishing she'd take some time to just say Hi and ease our minds a bit.
I see all her posts on facebook, and I know she's in to alot of stuff there, Monkees, Dr who, etc
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by BobCat on Mon Dec 10, 2012 9:04 pm

If you want, I can lock, or even delete the topic. I see JB was in here at about this time yesterday, and didn't post for whatever reason. I have no idea of what she's thinking, and I don't really see that anyone has said anything that isn't true or isn't kind. People here are concerned, and she doesn't want to talk about it. Again I say that I feel bad that she isn't a bit more forthcoming with people here who have reached out to her, but again, that's her choice.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Sue Short on Mon Dec 10, 2012 9:12 pm


That's up to you, I would leave it open and let her decide.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by Suzzzz on Mon Dec 10, 2012 9:27 pm

I don't see any need to close the topic; I hope you'll keep it open in case Jeane wants to post. I don't think anyone's angry or offended. We may be expressing frustratration, but only because we CARE so much! (And Jeane, if you're reading this, we REALLY do!) Maybe we should all just back off and respect Jeane's choices for now. She can read and not post if she wants to; lots of us do it. She'll post when she's ready.
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Re: the big c finally caught up with me

Post by jeanebellini on Wed Dec 12, 2012 4:02 am

i actually did come in here to give an update several days ago. but when i saw what was being said about me i ...well...i'm not going to comment on it all.
i listen to music and am writing again...there are things that are keeping my mind off things and i NEED to keep my mind off things. i pay my bills....i do research and as someone else has said..its not that easy finding things out.
i don't feel like coming in here and complaining or bitching about how bad my life is...i'd rather talk about how happy mike nesmith's words and music make me...or the fact that i've rediscovered Jim Carrey movies etc.
and even though it might appear that i'm on FB a lot...its up there and i'm doing other things all along...researching or doing puzzles to keep my mind sharp....trying to find a bank w free checking etc.
IF you really want to know how i'm doing ask me...sometimes i'm repeating the same thing over and over 25times a day though.
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